Nephrologist Jean Holley, MD, will never forget Deena and Mary (not their real names), two patients with end-stage renal disease (ESRD) she cared for 20 years ago who asked her to let them die. Deena, a widow in her 70s, had been on hemodialysis for eight years. Mary, who was in her late 40s and severely diabetic, needed to begin dialysis immediately to survive. Deena wanted to stop dialysis; Mary did not want to start. In both cases, refusal would almost certainly lead to death in less than a month.